When we talk about that which will sustain and nurture our spiritual growth as a people, we must once again talk about the importance of community.
For one of the most vital ways we sustain ourselves is by building communities of resistance, where we know we are not alone.

- bell hooks

Connection. Experience. Community.

Join our group to try new things, have new experiences, and enjoy being yourself in an outdoor environment.

Why have a bucket list? Let’s change that to an activity list and let us plan activities that were on your old bucket list !

 

Make Meaningful
Connections

How or where do adults make friends?!
The older we get, it seems like it is harder to meet like-minded people and build meaningful connections. Even when we step outside of our comfort zones, we may feel disconnected or alone, wishing we had someone to meet out
and try new things with. When we can meet people without the stress of a formal networking event or the politics of work, it just seems easier.

We offer the chance to get to know people in a low stress, fun environment. Hopefully you will leave with new friends and ready for the next event!

Experience
Something New

“That would be really cool to do.
But I don’t even know how to get started.”

The pandemic forced us to slow down and reflect on life decisions. We were stuck inside and sometimes, alone. Now, it’s time to get out the house and get back to action! This is a time to try new things or do more of what you haven’t had a chance to do. Maybe it means going after a new passion. Maybe you have a bucket list item or something you’d consider if someone suggested it. We are trying to stay up with what’s going on in the Triangle area - we’ll invite you so you can know too and come with us!

We find and curate activities that encourage you to jump out of your old routine and into new experiences.

Join Our
Community

“Where are Black people my age? I haven’t met any new people who share my interests.”

The pandemic also caused isolation and disconnection from friends. If you made it out of the last two years and want to be part of a new community of Black people and our referenced allies, fall through. AND - If you have ever joined a team, volunteered for an activity, or attended an event but left feeling alone or disconnected - we have too. We are done with that - If we all aren’t having a good time, what are we doing?! Having a community helps us try new things, be physically and mentally healthier, and
just feel overall better about life.

Connect with Black People who Share Similar Interests

If you ever started off a month of “I’ve never tried that before - let’s do it!” ideas, or if you have ever launched your “year of YES” - we have too. Let’s knock off a few items off your bucket list or just get you out of your usual routine.

We are sure there are people who are interested in the same things you want to do, who want to talk about what you care about, and who want to explore new ways to impact the community. Join The Obsidian so you can meet!

 

Sometimes Just Showing Up is The Answer

I know it can be anxiety-inducing or make you nervous to go somewhere that you haven’t been or with people you don’t know. Do it anyway. Do it afraid.

In the words of a Black Church pastor - “Won’t you come?” LOL. Seriously, showing up and getting outside of your comfort zone may be the best way to start a new chapter in your life. Besides, you never know who you may randomly meet! That’s the answer. That’s the post.